So, what signals are you sending out to men when this happens?
First, a sad homosexual/transexual gentleman found me funny, charming, delightful, and then he fell in love with me. He professed his desire to be with me while I was at work where I maintained my professional demeanor and told him to go back to his lover and reinvigorate their love life. He's also a TMI kind of guy, so I already know way too much about him.
Second, a married man fell head over heals for me. He walked behind me, stood by me, stared at me from across the room/office, listened to my conversations, and gave me quite a bouquet of flowers, and brought me food. Then he showed me a folder of photos of his cars and home. Did he find me attractive because I'm cute? Young? Was it my fine ass? (he did always follow me and hold the door for me!) Or was I putting out some kind of signal to him that this was something I would consider? Or is he just an arrogant ass?
What manifestions am I creating for this to happen in a two-week span of time? These are only two examples of the things I've been dealing with lately. One friend suggested that I was manifesting an aura, if you will, of wanting to be found attractive, but also not looking for attachment -- therefore, getting the tranny and the married man to find me so endearing.
It's true that I'm not sure what I want right now. I'm just coming out of a marriage and I'm not exactly looking for a replacment but I haven't exactly taken myself off the market. Basically, I think you may want to avoid me since I'm very likely fraught with complications. ~grins~
I don't know, I think the situations are separate, myself. I think that the tranny is a sad individual who doesn't get a lot of attention. And I think the married man is an ass who saw something cute and wanted a piece of it (literally).
Oh, and a sidenote: please tell me why men feel the need to show you a portfolio of photos of their house, car, friends, and family -- is this to demonstrate that they have family and friends and a car or house? Why do men keep showing me their portfolios? (Indy, I am hoping for a response from you on this one!)
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Girl, when you have nothing else to offer you have to hope monetary assests will do the trick. Unfortunately, with some girls they do.
Well, if it was a good portfolio, then I might perk up a little bit! HA! You show me what you own, and I'll show you what I own, then we'll get out the tax info, then the STD reports -- then we'll go out!
Maybe I've been out of the game too long? Is this how it's done now?
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